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Adventures in Parenting was born to bring Library sponsored parenting programs and trusted information to you on your time! Adventures in Parenting is hosted by Patchogue-Medford Librarians (and busy moms) Jessi and Erin. Listen, laugh and learn as they talk to experts in all areas of parenting.
Adventures in Parenting was born to bring Library sponsored parenting programs and trusted information to you on your time! Adventures in Parenting is hosted by Patchogue-Medford Librarians (and busy moms) Jessi and Erin. Listen, laugh and learn as they talk to experts in all areas of parenting.
Episodes

47 minutes ago
"Sharenting": The Pause Before the Post
47 minutes ago
47 minutes ago
36 min
In this episode of Adventures in Parenting Podcast, join our hosts, Jessi and Erin in discussing the term, "Sharenting" the combination of the words, sharing and parenting with special guest, Dr. Stacey Vaughn, a social work PhD and Vice President of Growth and Prevention at ChildHelp. Join them as they talk about all the risks of posting our children online, unbeknownst to the harm it could potentially cause.
Topics covered:
- 📲"Sharenting:" The basics
- 🗒️Guest introductions
- ⚠️Key risks children could be exposed to with an online presence
- 🙋Understanding and teaching digital consent of exposure
- 💻Maintaining Healthy digital footprints
- 🔐Safety discussions with teens and children
Episode #27, June 2027
For more resources on this topic, check out our resource guide: Resource Guide Episode #27

Jun 12, 2026
Dive into Water Safety
Jun 12, 2026
Jun 12, 2026
25 min
Water is everywhere, pools, lakes, backyard splash pads and more, and knowing how to stay safe in and around water could make all the difference. In this episode, join Jessi and Erin, with special guest Maria P. Giustizia, Director of the Recreation & Parks Department, from the Patchogue Village as they discuss all things water safety!
Topics covered:
- 🏊 Swimming lessons build more than water skills
- 🌊 Non-negotiable rules for water safety
- 🛟 Realities on the appearance of drowning
- 🤿 The truth about swim suit colors, pool rules, and safety details that often get overlooked
- 🏖️ Simple, actionable strategies for water protection and safety
Episode #26, June 2026
For more resources on this topic, check out our resource guide: Resource Guide Episode #26

Feb 27, 2026
Feb 27, 2026
33 min
Join Jessi and Erin in the final installment with Safe Harbour's very own, Stephanie Muller and Jahira Campazano. Learn about protecting your kids from the vulnerabilities of grooming and how to look out for red-flags in relationships and behavior patterns over time. This episode highlights the importance of open communication among parents and their children and educating children about boundaries and safety.
Topics covered:
🫸🏻Definition and stages of grooming
🚩Identifying Red Flags
📱Online Safety
💕Building Trust and Open Communication with children
🔒Handling Progressed Situations
📝Resources and Additional Information
Episode #25, February 2026
For more resources on this topic, check out our resource guide: Resource Guide Episode #25

Jan 23, 2026
Divorce: A Family Navigation Guide
Jan 23, 2026
Jan 23, 2026
38 min
In this episode, join Jessi and Erin as they sit down with Olivia Howell from Fresh Starts Registry and discuss all things family and divorce. Not only about the emotional weight of legal processes but about navigating and rebuilding of families during challenging and emotionally charged times. Most importantly, supporting and guiding children through familial shifts with love and hope.
*Please note, nothing discussed today constitutes as legal advise. If you would like legal guidance, you can find resources through the Fresh Starts website.
Topics covered:
- 🛒Features and benefits of Fresh Starts Registry
- 🚫Challenges and Stigma of divorce
- 🗣️How to have difficult conversations with children, relatives, and more
- 🤝Maintaining consistency through parenting plan disagreements
- 💖Importance of self care practices
- 💌Advice for family and friends on how to be supportive
Episode #24, January 2026
For more resources on this topic, check out our resource guide: Resource Guide Episode #24

Dec 12, 2025
Decoding the Teenage Brain
Dec 12, 2025
Dec 12, 2025
40 min
Why do teens make impulsive decisions even when they know better? Join Jessi and Erin as they sit down with Stephanie Muller and Jahira Campazano from Safe Harbour to decode adolescent brain development and behavior.
Learn practical strategies for setting boundaries, navigating emotional outbursts, and maintaining open communication without pushing your teen away. Plus, explore how social media exploits teen vulnerabilities and why real-world connections matter more than ever.
Perfect for parents navigating the journey of raising teenagers. Find out how to be your teen's safe space while still holding them accountable.
Topics covered:
- 🧠Teen brain development
- ❌ Setting healthy boundaries
- 📱Social media's impact
- 📖Teaching accountability
- 🤝Staying connected
Episode #23, December 2025
For more resources on this topic, check out our topic guide: Resource Guide Episode #23

Nov 14, 2025
Why Can't Our Kids Read? (And How to Help Them)
Nov 14, 2025
Nov 14, 2025
31 min
We're back just in time for Family Literacy Month this November! In this episode, we're diving into an important discussion relevant to parents everywhere - how kids really learn to read. Join Jessi and Erin with a special guest, Chad Aldeman, creator of Read Not Guess. This free, online resource is helping families and schools shift toward Structured Literacy, which is focused on letter sounds and builds difficulty as a child progresses with the goal of creating fundamental building blocks for comprehension and critical thinking.
In this episode learn all about:
- 📉Current U.S. literacy statistics
- 📖Practical, evidence-based ways to support your child’s reading journey at home
- 🚩How to spot a child struggling to read
- 💡Benefits of science-based reading instruction
Episode #22, November 2025
For more resources on this topic, check out our topic guide: Resource Guide Episode 22

May 27, 2025
A Parent's Guide to Teen Slang
May 27, 2025
May 27, 2025
38 min
Ever feel lost when teens say something is "mid" or "giving main character energy"? Join Jessi and Erin as their special guest, Emily Moyers, a Teen Librarian at PML and self professed language lover breaks down the wild world of modern slang – from how it spreads faster than ever on social media to why some terms stick while others get left on read.
What's inside:
✨ The psychology behind why teens create new language
📱 Which platforms are slang factories (hint: it's not just TikTok)
⚡ Cultural appropriation vs. natural language evolution
🎯 Parent survival guide to staying current without being cringe
🧠 Slang quiz to test your fluency!
Whether you're a confused parent or just fascinated by how language evolves, this episode will leave you absolutely shook by the creativity of modern communication.
No cap – this one hits different! 💯
Episode Timestamps:
0:01 – Introduction
03:15 – Terms and Patterns
05:15 – Reference points for slang
06:45 – How can parents stay informed
08:55 – How does slang reflect Gen Z cultural shifts/values
10:50 – How does their time online influence slang
13:30 – Life cycle of slang terms
14:20 – Influence of marginalized groups on slang (appropriation vs mainstream)
18:30 – Possible hidden meanings of slang terms
22:05 – Platforms where slang is being created
23:40 – Favorite slang terms
28:10 – Slang quiz
35:00 - Closing
Episode #21, May 2025
For more resources on this topic, check out our topic guide: Resource Guide Episode #21

Apr 4, 2025
Family Mental Health
Apr 4, 2025
Apr 4, 2025
51 min
Erin and Jessi are joined by Jasmine Lucas from the Association for Mental Health and Wellness who shares practical strategies for creating mentally healthy family environments. Listen and discover how to recognize warning signs in children, engage reluctant teenagers, and have age-appropriate mental health conversations. Jasmine offers guidance on balancing personal wellbeing with children's needs, handling crises, and navigating the impacts of technology on family dynamics.
Episode Timestamps:
- 0:50 – Association for Mental Health & Wellness overview
- 9:45 – Signs of mental health struggles in children
- 13:50 – Engaging reluctant teenagers
- 20:25 – Age-appropriate mental health conversations
- 26:20 – Balancing personal and family mental health
- 30:11 – Mental health crisis response
- 35:05 – AI and social media impacts
- 41:45 – Communication barriers
- 46:35 – Practical recommendations
Remember: building mentally healthy families isn't about perfection—it's about progress and presence.
Episode #20, April 2025
For more resources on this topic, check out our topic guide: Resource Guide Episode #20
Recommended Parenting Resources
- Autism Speaks: 100 Day Tool Kit
- Autism Speaks: Transition Tool Kit
- LIPI: Long Island Parenting Institute
- Connect Safely
- PFLAG Long Island
- https://kidsactivitiesblog.com/
- https://www.childcaresuffolk.org/
- Sesame Workshop
- Safe Harbour NY
- Common Sense Media & Education
- Thorn for Parents: Be Your Kid’s Safety Net
- Family Engagement Tool-kit
- American Academy of Pediatrics: Parenting Website
- The National Parenting Center Website
- National Education Association: Parents & Guardians
- Suffolk County Child Advocacy Center

